Category: writing

  • Holding onto my tail

    I’m hoping my tail stays attached as the big event draws near.

  • Another label…WoC

    Another label…WoC

    When are you a writer of color? Ethnicity and writing are a complex playing field.

  • Just a little vitamin D

    I just need a little sunshine, if you please.

  • Cultural Roots and Communal Behavior: A Discussion Between Aurora Rey and Ashley Bartlett Part 3

    Originally posted on Women and Words: As promised, here is the final installment of my conversation with Aurora Rey about the intersection of cultural roots and queerness. In part our discussion was a result of this essay at Autostraddle, which I can’t believe you haven’t read yet. If you would…

  • Stuck in the middle with you…

    What do you do when you get bogged down in the saggy middle?

  • Whoa, Nelly

    Whoa, Nelly

    Who were you a year ago? Five years ago? Fifteen? Change is inevitable…

  • Coated Memories

    Whenever I teach a writing course, there’s always a session on the senses. The ‘sensual envelope’ used in writing can evoke strong emotions. Certain smells can remind you of specific moments, some colors can remind you of special events. The smell of bacon reminds me of Sundays with my grandmother,…

  • Confessional.

    Friend, forgive me. For I have (probably) sinned against you, repeatedly. I’m sorry. I really am. It’s not that I don’t care. I do. I wonder how you are. I hope you’re okay. I smile when I think of our times together. I’m just really, incredibly, surprisingly awesome at being…

  • Quite.

    I’ve been in this country for quite a while now. I’m used to the language discrepancies, to roundabouts every three feet, and to the Brit’s eternal optimism that the weather will, by ‘summer’, get better. (It never does.) But there’s one area that appears to be decidedly different, and it…

  • Never Underestimate a List

    An old friend of mine used to say that when coherent words escape you, start a list. So I’m starting a list. Christmas and New Year were absolutely perfect in every way. Food, movies, snuggles. Exactly the right amount of each. My wife literally gave me the moon. (a 3D…