Random Musings

Category: writing

  • Make it hurt

    It’s been a while since I wrote about writerly things, and there’s something specific on my mind. Quiz: what makes for a better story? A. Two women have to work together. Neither really likes the other, (not for any big reason), but things happen and they work it out in…

  • Get your suitcase out…

    I’m really excited to say that my first anthology for BSB, coedited by the wonderful Sandra Lowe, will be out in January. Escape to Pleasure is all about finding the sensual while away from home. Whether that’s in Thailand on a business trip, playing out a fantasy with a partner,…

  • Come Talk to Me?

    Hey all. Hope you’re well as we slide into autumn. Here in the UK, we’ve had a gorgeous run of chilly sunshine and our yard is full of Halloween decorations. That definitely points to the fact that there’s a Yank living here, since no one else in the entire estate…

  • Nicotine and backgammon

    Nostalgia is a funny phenomenon… I moved around a lot as a kid. Three years in a place was an average. But I was born in Glendale. My aunt and my grandmother lived there too. My aunt moved around some, but she ended up back in Glendale. I spent many…

  • Breathing.

    Surrounded by work, by noise, by the need to be ever-available, it’s easy to forget to just breathe. To be in the moment. I’m on a Greek island in October. This is my view every morning when I wake up. And I am breathing. Like, deep breath, full soul, filling…

  • Touching history

    I love studying history. I love touching something that meant so much to someone nice upon a time. It’s such a beautiful thing to be connected to the past. Even if it’s a past with darkness, as so much of history is. It makes me feel both less alone and…

  • Prophetic multitudes

    I was a weird kid. I was a soul searcher. From a young age, I wanted to understand the nature of god (little g). I wanted to understand who was supposed to be out there listening. And why people where talking to a bunch of different entities they couldn’t see.…

  • Depth perception. Or, too fat for the shower.

    Well hello there. It’s been awhile. You see, I’m having some trouble putting myself out into cyberspace these days. Even on social media I rarely say much of consequence. But that’s bothering me some. I tell other people to be brave, to speak out, reach out… but I don’t. I…

  • Away and home again.

    Home is a wonderful place to be. I love opening the front door after a long trip. I love breathing in the sanctuary that is uniquely ours. That’s not to say we didn’t enjoy being away. We did, very much so. Las Vegas was hot. But it was a welcome…

  • Who would you be?

    What do your memories mean to you? How much a part are they of your fundamental personality? If you had amnesia tomorrow, if you didn’t remember the experiences and people in your life… would you be you? Or could you be anyone you decided to be from that point forward?…